As much as women complain about there not being good men out there, men complain too! Many men struggle with finding a woman who is genuinely interested in him and not just the on-demand free drinks and apps or the “when i’m feeling lonely or bored” attention. Here are 5 ways a man can possibly tell if SHE is just not that into him!
1. Her body language.
Body language is everything. If she is feeling you, her body will let you know even if the two of you never touch. For example, if you touch her, does she touch you back? or When speaking to her, does she lean in to you or smile? or Does she keep a noticeable distance between the two of you? Now don’t get me wrong, none of this is written in stone and some people are shy, but body language can help with assessing a social situation. You may want to reconsider your options if her body language is not in sync with how you are feeling. Use your intuition fellas! Yes, men have that gift too!
2. Social clues she is avoiding you.
If she constantly avoids you or find excuses to get out of spending time with you, outside of that meal she may be interested in, she may not be that into you. It’s true, women do this all the time. We may not be interested in you in that way, but dinner makes your date invitation sound a lot more desirable than before.
3. She flirts with other guys.
She certainly may not be interested in you if she flirts with other guys right in your face. Now she could be just trying to make you jealous; however pay attention to the amount of attention she gives these other guys in comparison to the amount of attention that she gives you. If we are into a guy, it’s noticeable because of the attention we give to that person. If she is flirty with other guys right in your face, just keep it trucking, no man or woman deserves to have their emotions ‘toyed’ with, or their money and time wasted.
4. Her friends mistreat you.
A good clue as to how much a woman likes you, if at all, would be how her friends behave while you’re around. As women, we talk to our friends about our crushes, our lovers, our potential boos, etc…so chances are, if you’ve made a good impression on her, her friends are aware. Unfortunately, this also means that f you’ve made a questionable impression on her, they will also be aware. If she cares about making a good impression on you, so will they! If they mistreat you, she’s probably not give them a very good impression of you after all, and she may not be that into you. Pay attention to the cues from the friends
5. The Blank Stare or Stank Face
If she can’t seem to keep up with the conversation because she seems bored or uninterested, you will notice. If she is not interested, it is usually written all over her face.
Long story, short? Don’t waste your time if a woman is showing that she doesn’t care…there is always another woman out there looking for a guy to give special treatment. Those things she saw as corny, may make the next woman blush and smile.