I’m not a very religious person, but I do believe that we are either born with or given those things in our lives that we need, and it is up to us to decide how we can use those things, properly or efficiently. Sometimes in life we get so distracted by what we want so badly or what we feel we deserve.
For example, I may be so focused on finding that “dream job” or that “perfect man,” that it’s never even occurred to me that perhaps it’s not what is meant for me. Perhaps that dream job or perfect man were not so dreamy or perfect after all. Yes, it is possible that those things that you desire so deeply may not be what is best for you. Perhaps you already have what you need, for the moment.
Our experiences shape us and mold us into the people we are. I won’t tell you that God has something greater for you down the road, because i’m not even sure if that is true, however I do believe that if you are going through hard times, history has taught us that hard times do not last forever.
sometimes life requires a little assembly…
Sometimes life is messy. Sometimes life is not as together as we would like, but just like some gifts, sometimes life requires a little assembly. Life doesn’t always come with instructions or tutorials, sometimes we just have to move around the pieces until everything get into it’s place. When you make a mistake or feel defeated, just make the adjustments necessary to keep you moving forward. Learn to appreciate your now and today. This is life. It’s up to us how we prepare and deal with it. The sooner we accept it, the better off we will probably be.